Happy Harvest to my friends,
In Celtic Tradition, this is Mabon, or the fall equinox, and it is the second of three traditional harvest festivals (August 2nd and October 31st are the others). On the day of the autumnal equinox the sun crosses the equator from the Northern to the Southern Hemisphere. Only twice yearly do we see this balance of light and dark. For 2014, this occurs on September 22nd, when the sun rises exactly in the east and sets exactly in the west over the equator. Day and night will be the same length. The following day we have a New Moon in Libra (Sept 23rd), and the image of the goddess holding the scales illustrates this balance perfectly.
We are in a time of re-balancing the energy of the masculine and feminine on this planet. The awareness of the Divine Feminine is returning to consciousness and we need new narratives that allow women’s self perception to include a connection to the Sacred Feminine within. My particular search in the last two decades is to find pathways for new meaning regarding sexuality; especially promoting narratives for women to feel central to their own sexual stories. It is my sense that western psychology models are not healing women because of their inherently flawed judgments about the feminine.
There is a relational split between men and women, especially around sexuality, that has existed since patriarchy took over the more collaborative cultures and it seems to be widening. We are struggling in Western Culture under a distinctly phallocentric, performance based model of sex which has increasingly polarized sex because of the prevalence of porn imagery promoting this particularly narrow point of view. I have seen many cases of men who have habituated to this adrenaline pumping, increasingly novel imagery which has limited them from connecting to a real partner in a loving and mutually fulfilling sexual relationship.
The rebalancing that we need is the opposite of the adrenaline/ novelty/variety and phallocentric approach to sexuality. I have called it the Pleasure Model and it incorporates wisdom from Sacred Sexuality traditions in ancient and indigenous cultures around the world. Some of these approaches are re-emerging in the West, much of it taught by women or couples, who are reframing sexuality as energy connecting us to Spirit and promoting deep connection rather than performance.
I have discovered that Shamanic practices are capable of profoundly shifting our perspectives. There are three strong reasons for this: first, because with these practices, there is no dogma and no external authority, we are the creators of our own story; second, because the intention is to offer tools to create personal stories that are more in harmony with the self; and third, because the meaning making we create comes from a direct encounter with the self in a safe setting. With regard to sexuality, it can move us out of the cultural box and into a deeply loving place.
Please visit my Facebook page, if you haven’t already, to see some descriptions of the weekend intensive that has grown out of this intersection of Shamanic practices and expanded sexuality. You will also see pictures as well as testimonials of those who have had the experience. Here’s the link https://www.facebook.com/pages/Energy-Power-and-Sexuality/183483201850730. I would love it if you gave us a like.
Happy Fall everyone, Blessings, Linda